Saturday, May 31, 2008
Loving Pink....and
And Brandi Carlile.....yes....what a cutie. I think I see her next week with my friend Julie....hmm.
These words....speak to me right now. I get them....you know...in a 'get them' kinda way.
Pink...
One night to you
Lasted six weeks for me
Just a bitter little pill now
Just to try to go to sleep
No more waking up to innocence
Say hello to hesitance
To everyone I meet
Thanks to you
I guess I'll never know
What love means to me but oh
I'll keep on rolling down this road
But I've got a bad, bad feeling
It's gonna take a long time to love
It's gonna take a lot to hold on
It's gonna be a long way to happy, yeah
Left in the pieces that you broke me into
Torn apart but now I've got to
Keep on rolling like a stone
Cause it's gonna be a long long way to happy
Umm?
Just rode past this and wondered if anyone else notices the proximity of these two signs?
Xxm
oh and ps....there was NO school ANYWHERE near the sign....???
Friday, May 30, 2008
Way too many
Perhaps...
If I had room on an arm, my next tattoo would be:
forsan et haec olim meminisse juvabit
it is latin for:
'perhaps we'll look back on this oneday and smile'
(loose translation)
Oh hell, I have plenty of body parts left...surely it can't be that hard to find somewhere. I realise that I like to get 'mantra' types of things tattoed on me, all of them so far have been really important things for me to look at and remember.
Anyway, I am not fully sure about this one as I am working out that sometimes it's tough to see yourself looking back on something and smiling. Especially hurtful things. I am told that time is all it takes...you know, TIME. If I think back on 8 years ago when I first came to this country, I remember being really scared, unsure and sad about leaving my family, friends and country...but also feeling kinda high by the thought of the journey ahead. Knowing that I was exactly where I was mean't to be at the time and that in the midst of everything, I would be safe.
I am what is considered to be a 'latch key kid'...in that for most of my growing up I was left to make up my own world after school etc. I spent hours either getting lost in my parents warehouse while they worked or I would catch a bus or walk home from school so I could ride my horse through the bushland around where I lived exploring, or swimming in the dam or building tree houses with my bro, or playing cricket with the kids who lived around my area...all pretty much unsupervised. It mean't that I also got into a lot of 'trouble'....you know, raiding the liquor cabinet, trying pot, experimenting with sex. All those things and more. I know some people grow up with a sense of feeling abandoned because of the latch key thing...but I have realised recently that it actually helped give me my sense of safety in the world. That I always felt able to take care of myself or work out what to do next and have always felt a pretty deep sense of being looked out for wherever I go. In my late teens, I use to always have dreams about the angel Gabriel hanging out with me...just keeping his eye on things.
Anyway, some of that sense of safety has been a little wobbly lately...not being sure, you know, all that stuff (I am sure regular readers have felt that here)....trying to work out why and how and how to get it back. I know part of it is just deciding that I am safe...and also deciding that I am exactly where I am mean't to be at this time.
So....I am sure oneday I may decide to look back and smile...but I definately know that I will look back and know that this period of my life was unbelievably defining. Huge growth in my person, huge lessons, huge heartaches and sadness....but, I feel a little tingly feeling coming back...it's either gas, or it's that high 'wow, what next' kinda thing going on.
Off to drink beers with mates....wanna come?
xxM
Sleepless in Chicago
Anyway, this picture is of doggie. I have had him since I was 12 years old and I just took him out of storage to bring back with me. I knew I'd need him. Someone just made the comment that he has probably seen a lot and felt a lot of tears in that time. Too true. I think as we get older we get embarrassed to show things like this....nah, not me (surprising no?). I love the fact that I still have him, that I still feel good cuddling up to him sometimes at night and that he has lived in 6 States and 2 countries with me. And yes.....seen a lot and felt a lot of tears.
But still, even he can't help me sleep right now.....
Xxm
Thursday, May 29, 2008
New Addition..
ahha....yes I am.
The vigilante car buyers
We just found out that his niece is coming to look at it in an hour.....but I am imagining myself in it as I sit here. Its white, which I can deal with....and its an acura, which I can deal with too. Low miles. Think good thoughts my friends and imagine us sitting down low in the mustang looking at the car....and you could soon see me touring in it.
Xxm
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Blind hill?
Can I say again, that I am enveloped, held, loved and supported by the most amazing community of women, all over this country and my country, and that I am incredibly grateful for each and every single one of them.
For the love and words that they bring to my life just when I need it the most. Wise, strong, passionate, honest, loving, kind, honoring, clear, magnificent women with intergrity, who witness my journey in all its raw honesty. People who I have exposed the deepest parts of me and the most painfilled parts of my journey to and who lovingly remind me of my truth, 0f my strength and my intergrity, of my heart and of my intention, of who I want to be in this world. They kick my ass when I need it, help me apply salve to my wounded self and wipe da tears away. They listen patiently to me as I try to understand and wrestle with things (some of which need to be wrestled to the ground, some of which are just a waste of my air) and tell me to keep my hand away from the hot plate as often, and as patiently (and sometimes not so), as I need to be told. They teach me each day about this journey and the gift and lesson of honoring, loving, healing, protecting and respecting myself and my heart.
I am so thankful for them in my life.....so thankful for the tremendous lessons and wisdom they are imparting to me and feel like my prayers to the universe for healing, growth and the desire to never be in this place again are answered by their love, friendship and guidance.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
And yoah, Wendy, non ho...tour ho.....my debt to you is cleared (check out what's missing....) and get ready to pay up big lady!! How long again?
Xxm
ps...clarification...wendy, the non ho tour ho...has this 'thing' she does with me and other daring individuals. An example...oneday she bet me a dollar that on the next double lane road, that I wouldn't drop my pants and flash the car next to us (which happened to have Lynne Deeves and Trina Hamlin in). Because we were on a back country road in the middle of nowhere and hadn't seen any double lane road for a long time, I bet her $10 that we wouldn't SEE a double lane road. Literally 3 minutes later....what happened? So...I ended up owing her $9 for the privilege of dropping my pants to an unsuspecting T and Lynne. My debt is now paid off because she bet me the remainder of that payment today....and lost.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Bali.....
Umm
But I walked away, scratching my head, realizing how it is that stores play on our emotions......
But not before I looked back with sadness in my eyes at the one legged Teddy.....
My heart feels kinda sad today anyway....sure this sight didn't help any.
Gratefulness
I get to do this 'job', I travel around the world playing music, doing what I love....along the way I get to work with some great folks. Good, solid, beautiful people... who become my friends. I am not kidding you, sometimes I get most excited to be heading to an area because it means that I get to hang out with those people again.
And those evansville girls are like that for me. I love em, am humbly grateful for them, and can't wait to see their smiling faces again.
Xxm
Monday, May 26, 2008
So....
What a damn achievement no?
There is still cocoa bean mulch to go in and of course, tomorrow is planting day. And then we get to sit back and reap the rewards right?
I love doing things with my hands and building stuff like this that you can sit back and be proud of, thrills me. I always said if I wasn't playing music that I would do something with wood because of the way it feels under my hands and the amazing things you can create with it.
Anyway, dontcha feel like you are watching a before and after home show right now?
Xxm
In between
If it meant nothing to you
Why'd you sing with me
At all?
Why'd you fill my sorrow
With the words you borrowed
From the only place
you've ever known
Why did you sing hallelujah
If it means nothing to you
Why did you sing with me
At all?
Monday afternoon words that speak to my heart.....
And how DOES this hat look? I mean, really....? Lol
What do
Why, build vegetable gardens of course....
Here in lies the beginning of the veggie garden....good for the heart as well as the belly.
Xxm
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Meditation.....
To be surrounded by a love, a peace and an energy that I want to always be connected to. Redefining spirituality is an interesting journey and what pushes us to that place is equally as interesting.
So, here I sit. Meditating. No, really.....I am.
Now
Chalk and laughter
I am not afraid to walk this world alone
Etc etc....(my chemical romance)
Wendy the non ho, tour ho has been arrested and we are all trying to work out what she did. Its been a very funny game.....sorry Wendy, at your expense mate. Call if you need anything....and don't bend over.
Its a beautiful evening out here as we all sit and exchange stories.....funny and not so. I love it when you have a group of people together who feel safe to one another, safe enough to share intimate details about their journey. I always feel honored to listen (and promise not to blog them up here....lol) and to share. I think I work out at the end of the day, that we all just want to be seen, to be heard, to have and live truth. To love, be loved....and to laugh really fucking hard.
Xxm
Memorial day drawings
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Lake Michigan
Off to play pool, drink beer and possibly eat chicken wings. For some reason I just felt like doing exactly all three of those things and didn't have to look far to find someone to help!!
Nice night here in Chicago, would be nice to be riding around the lake right now too.
Xxm
There she is....
Sad farewells this morning (but I kept the house key....which is secret musician language for 'I am keeping it because I know you love me and would welcome me back to your house any time...even unexpectedly'). I think I have 5 sets of house keys in my bag....I have a wide and beautiful family.
Xxm
Friday, May 23, 2008
Chillin....drinkin sake with the chicks.
Last night here in the city and they are all trying to talk me into coming back, offering rooms and such....I just gotta know that the time will come and be right.
And have faith.
See, there's that word again. Faith.
Xxm
Me and my mates
Finished shows for a week or so and head back to my Midwest family tomorrow. Looking forward to hitting the bike trail, getting ready for the national festival in a few weeks, heading to indy for one show with my good mate Trina Hamlin. Hopefully sleeping better.
I have an OM token in my pocket....means every time I put my hand in my pocket that it reminds me of my mantra, the desire to honor myself and my truth. To be aware, to breathe. Sometimes every moment I need to touch it (sounds kinda dirty!) but those moments will start to have space between them......I have faith.
Xxm
To all ye that need to hear....
There are sooooooooo many beautiful, amazing, awe inspiring, sexy people to meet and experiences to have in this world, that it just makes me realize how everything really can turn on the edge of a dime. Wow, life is so fucking big!!!
Its nice to be reminded of that.......
Xxm
(this post is slightly powered by really good tequila and general happiness)
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Thursdays View
Had some bloody ripper phone calls and emails in the last 24 hours. I love nothing more than a huge meaty conversation with people who aren't afraid to lay themselves out. You know, those really honest, no holds barred, vulnerable moments shared with another human bean. Where we all sit there and realise that we aren't alone out here, that we are all working out deep, tough things about our worlds.
I am just so appreciative for those moments in my life. So grateful to the universe for placing its arms around me and surrounding me with like minded people, some of whom I have barely known until the last month or so. Random moments where we have been brought together and have an instant beautiful honesty with each other. I feel like I have this HUGE spotlight on top of my head, that I am working double time at removing the thought processes, actions and beliefs that have been hidden in my depths, that don't serve me anymore....and infact, do nothing but hold me back. Events over the past few months have brought me to an absolute heartbreaking screaming halt and what a perfect opportunity to rebuild.
Anyway, all of those conversations and reveals have helped and are helping that process, for all parties. And to feel so embraced in the middle of my reveal and to embrace back in the middle of their reveal, is nothing but wonderfully healing.
So blessed, we be.
Xxm
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Grace...
After hanging up with her I had a sudden urge to head to Grace Cathedral. Its the most magnificent church in San Francisco all i knew is that it was on top of a hill, so I just kept walking up until I was at the highest point downtown, and there she was, all beautiful and holy and stuff.
Not only does it have some of the most amazing stained glass windows but it has this beautiful labyrinth right in the middle of it. I walked into the labyrinth with all the questions and things I couldn't understand and as I walked around it, I offered them all up to the universe. Asking it to take the maddening thoughts and the wonderings why, to help me truely honor and love myself enough that I would actually want to let go of the things that are doing nothing but harming me and my heart, that don't serve me, or my growth or my highest intention in this world. I argued with myself as I walked around that labyrinth. I argued hard. I tried to tell myself that letting go was the wrong idea. Part of my psychic reading a month ago drew two cards....the death card and the moon card...and the psychic told me it meant that a certain situation in my world was dead and that I was still under the illusion that it was something it wasn't or had never been.....as I walked the labyrinth, I argued against that too.
Until I kinda got tired of it all. Until my spirit and my heart hurt. Until I had nothing left to argue with.
I then stood in the middle of that labyrinth and offered it all up to the universe.
I told it that I was tired of thinking about it all and didn't want it anymore. That I couldn't understand and would probably never understand. That I wanted it gone from me.
Then, I bundled up all the questions, the hurt, the lies, the wants, the desires, the tears, the hopes and the dreams from the last 6 months and I literally bent down and dropped the package in the middle of the labyrinth (sorry to the cleaners, its probably an oozing package).
I turned my back on it and started saying the mantra 'OM NA MAH SHI VA YA' - I honor the divinity that resides in me.
For 40 minutes I walked back through it, listening to my brain argue, trying to talk me into going back and picking it up again, that somehow I needed it or would be scared of it's loss....but I kept walking and saying my mantra....wanting it, begging it...to fall deep deep into my soul, into my cells. Asking for healing and for protection and peace and with each step knowing I was letting go a little more. With each step, I was honoring and protecting myself a little more. And with each step I moving away from the old and opening my heart up for the new. Knowing that what will be, will be a 100x better than what was.
I got to the end of the labyrinth and although I knew I wasn't fully done yet, I was more aware that at least the claws of it were out of me. That my spirit was returning, the my heart was feeling lighter and my mind feeling healthier.
I took a big deep breath, wiped my face, held my child warmly in my own arms....and exhaled, not looking back at the bundle of ooze on the floor in the labyrinth....and then, I walked into the sun.
Xxm
Journal-isms
I am sitting here on Polk St, in the warm sun, writing. I have been talking a lot lately about honoring the creative process and how vital it is. In that, if your creativity presents itself and you can't be bothered writing or recording it, then it will disappear. I firmly believe that and have seen a lot of songs fall out of my head because I was too busy, tired, asleep to honor that moment.
So, at 2am this morning when I woke up with a new poem whizzing through my brain, I begged for sleep for a second and asked the poem to come back tomorrow, but nay, it wanted NOW!
I crawled around in the darkness and found my phone and laid in a half asleep state typing away. Until the energy of it woke me up completely and I got excited by the flow and the movement of the words. Being thankful for being able to express something so deep inside me (I will post it up on the writings section of my site in the next day or so, so you can see).
Point of the post my friends, honor the process, let it flow wherever you are and you will no doubt be rewarded with a gift of insight and understanding (into yourself and any 'situation') and beauty that may never have been birthed otherwise.
So....back to the writing....and the sunning......and the coffee-ing......and the random moments with strangers as they pass by.
And cheers to creativity, it saves my soul.
Xxm
_ ache
This photo touched me and I wanted to share. So simple, and yet so powerful.
It matched part of the book 'eat, pray, love' that I am reading so passionately again...
'Do you think there's any way humans can love each other without complication?....it's two human beings trying to get along, so it's going to become complicated. And love is always complicated. But still, humans must try to love each other. We must get our hearts broken sometimes. This is a good sign, having a broken heart.
It means we have tried for something.....'
Xxm
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
The streets of SF
I am having an afternoon just wandering around town. Most of my commitments are over and it feels nice just to wander and have no great plan. I always find those are the moments when something glorious and unexpected happens.
Regular reader and mate, KC is in KY today hanging out doing some campaigning for Hillary with Gretchen. Check out the blog: http://hillaryclintonarmy.blogspot.com/ looks like bloody fun and the texts saying 'wish you were here' make me wish it too!
Anything for an adventure, no? Life is too short for safety, no risk and non adventure, my friends. The mayan calendar finishes in 2012, so we better get on with living.
Xxm
Words for this day..
Monday, May 19, 2008
I just pulled this card.
Card meaning : don't settle for less than your dreams. Once you make the commitment to manifest and improve your situation, the universe will find a way to deliver it to you.
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Deep down, you know what type of life you're meant to live. By drawing this card, you're being reminded that you deserve and can manifest any situation you wish.
Affirmation : I deserve and expect the best in life. I hold high standards for myself.
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Frog song.....
Honestly, I feel a little jealous of them all. I know living in community isn't always easy but damn I love the idea of it. Pooling resources, having people to hang out when you want and not if you don't, creating something as amazing as this with other people.
I feel like I get to live in community all over the world....I have mates and homes and lives that I become a part of for a period of time and I always feel so happy when someone says 'it feels like you never left.'
I tell you though, if I had all the money in the world, I would build something like this and invite all my favourite people to come live together. I often find myself saying to a mate somewhere 'oh, if you met this person, you would SO love each other'.
It makes me pine for you all....and dream about the idea.
Xxm
Better to say...than not
Than never say what you need to say
So....say what you need to say
Who knew I could find inspiration from John Meyer today.
Standing in the labrynth
Afterwards I walked the labrynth offering prayers of thanks and gratefulness for my life and journey and I asked the universe to remind me of my sense of safety in the world, I seem to have misplaced that lately. I also felt myself remember parts of my being that I have been beating up lately, my intuition and trust and faith in my own decisions. Its interesting to see the things that we let affect or wound those part of us and the intention it takes to find those parts of us and trust them again when we have been hurt. I hear the still small voice inside me wooing me back to myself, and that causes me to smile.
Its a beautiful day and I am immensely thankful that I have loved and am loved and can love.
Xxm
The crew here....
Xxm
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Once upon a time
Nice huh?
She knows me so well!!
This is how the afternoon goes....
Gotta hop in the car in an hour for the drive to san Jose for the show tonight so, its back to sitting on the boat and soaking up the rays.
Xxm
Stuck in the middle of here...
Anyway, a moment of gratefulness that I wanted to share. Now off to drink good wine with my mates Rachel and Dana on their balcony over looking the city.
All good mates
Xxm
Friday, May 16, 2008
L'ho provato sulla mia pelle
They say it and empathize so beautifully. I think I should need to start learning Italian, now I have my citizenship means I can head off to work anywhere in the EU. Wanna come?
Xxm
Famous for its winding-ness?
It didn't feel that exciting.
Its another glorious day here and the locals are starting to complain about the heat. Damn, I am loving it. Its dry heat though, which is my fav.
I went to see my favourite doctor while I was in town and she gasped when she saw me and immediately threw me on the scales (which is never a good sign).
'20 pounds? In the last 3 months?' she cried and wrapped me up in her arms and squeezed me until I teared up and then she grabbed my arm and ran her hand across my new tattoo and said 'just remember this darling, remember this.....'This, too, will pass'.....and go and buy some new pants, you look like a bum.'
I love people who can laugh in the middle of serious, its a wonderful healing remedy.
Xxm
The ever changing face of here....
Not unlike this city.
I just got back from a great show I did over in the East bay....people are celebrating the supreme court decision, even if just for a minute, and there is a nice feeling in the air. Its still pretty warm, which this little Aussie is soaking up.
I realized when I got home that I was hungry....it was a pretty exciting moment for me, I tell you. I haven't really had the hungry feeling in over 3 months...and it aint because I have been eating non stop!! So as I sit here with cheese and crackers, celebrating my hunger, todays decision, the fact that my body and voice are tired from singing my heart out... and this amazing life....my heart is yet again filled with gratefulness.
My aim is to take a moment every night before I try to sleep to say outloud the things I am thankful for. To have a spirit of gratefulness. Maybe we can all try it together? Let's see if it changes anything in our worlds?
Ready?
Xxm